THE WAY YOU LOOK

We do not see things as they are. We see them as we are.

One day a college friend of mine Roy gave me a call. He is in confusion regarding his health. He got checked up by three doctors and all of their opinion differs. So he asked me to be there to discuss in details.

On the schedule day I went to his place. On entering I heard his voice in loud pitch. He and his wife greet me inside the house. As we all eased down on cozy sofa, starring at his wife Roy pitched out his loud voice complaining, the drinking glass is not properly cleaned. After the incident we started our discussion. Roy’s wife came with coffee. Holding the coffee

mug again he complained the mug is not properly cleaned. Placing the original discussion in shelf he shifted the discussion regarding the maid, she who is responsible for all the dirtiness. On spot he took a decision to get rid of the maid. During the entire episode his wife not even uttered a single word. I was feeling embarrassed.

I insist on the original discussion. As per his old habit he took off the spectacles. He is to do the same whenever he used to get excited. To take control over the situation I asked for the medical reports and diverted the discussion on that course.

After an hour his wife called us for dinner. Taking his seat Roy immediately started checking the drinking glasses. Failed to find none of them spotted with dust particles, he grimed “is this glasses are washed by the maid?” his wife nodded yes. Roy was in motion to say something. His wife stopped him and said, “While you have kept your spectacles on the table I have wiped the dust from it. The glasses are all the same as it was. It is your spectacles which were covered with dust.”

My friend observation is very important to be successful. But while observing you must have a clear vision of the fact, otherwise you will misguide yourself. One must be aware in observation otherwise it’s not possible to view the real picture.

Clean you spectacles and the window glasses….to view a perfect picture.

WORTHLESS

 What is worthless? Who is worthless?

My friend do you have any idea about anything worthless?

Now stop reading further and make a list of anything or anyone you think who or which are worthless (be honest). After completing your list start reading.

I don’t have any idea about your list. But I’m sure none have left away the sheet blank.

Let me tell you about a situation I came across.

This winter I went to circus show with my family in kolkata. After three performances a dwarf joker came into the ring displaying a fresh note of Rs.100/-. He asked the audience who wants it...all the hands gone up. The joker crushed the note and makes a ball out of it and throws it on the ground. After stretching the note again he asked…who wants it now...all the hands gone up. Again he crushed the note into a ball and started playing football with it even he stumped it with his shoes. Then he picked up the dirty, filthy, crushed, cracked note and asked again…who wants it…all the hands gone up. Cunningly the joker said so many hands are up and as I love all of you so it is not possible for me to choose one in particular…its better let the currency be with me.

The entire crowd enjoyed, me also. But I enjoyed for a different reason. From the entire episode I got a great lesson. When a dirty, crushed, cracked, filthy currency is still worth the same as it was entirely fresh. Then how a human being can be worthless.

My friends never treat anyone as worthless. Search out the potential factor of that person and place him in that particular area you will be astonished to see the man whom you thought worthless is proving him with great potency. A true leader never banishes anybody rather with due care search for resources within the team mates.

Nothing is worthless in this world, except the word worthless is worthless.

PACKAGING

                          

 Without debating it can be said we are naturally get attracted towards packaging. It is why companies used to develop attractive package for their products. In many cases we used to purchase products by their packaging. But as the soon as the packaging gets opened, the quality of the products comes under surveillance.

The same thing happens with us. Why do we dress up? Is it just to cover the naked body?

Dressing up perfectly is very important as it carries the impression of yours. There are many people those who dressed up to enhance their personality. It is negative. This negativity develops due to fear of rejection. To get attracted by others they dressed up to enhance their outer beauty.

What is beauty? Is beauty mean…how fair the skin, how sharp the nose, how big the eyes etc. People who never have experienced beauty they utter this nonsense.

Your behavior, intelligence, sense of humor, creativity reflects the beauty and personality. Intelligent people use clothing and accessories as per their personality.

Never allow the dress to take away the credit. It is not you look good in this dress. It should be the dress suits your personality.

My friend, you are the part of the supreme creator. What ever the supreme creates it’s beautiful and you are his creation. Without you the beautification of this world is impossible. Collectively the world is beautiful. Nothing can perform alone. You are an active part of the collective factor, so don’t be in the complex.

Emphasis more on the quality, than the mask.  

SOMEBODY ELSE

Have you ever date with yourself?

If you are searching for an extraordinary human being, like whom you want to be. Just stand in front of a full size mirror and watch the person whom you see. Your body can be represented as a miniature universe.

If we unwrap and spread the entire DNA which is our programmer lengthwise, it would reach the nearest planet and come back.

Our nose acts as a huge sensor which is able to identify ten thousand or more different smells. A simple sneeze clears a blocked nose as fast as a jet that travels 100 miles per hour.

Our vocal chord is able outsmart any musical instrument with its complexity and potentiality.

Our eyes seem to be much superior to any camera invented.

A fine corner of our brain proves to be more complex and dynamic than any rocket launching station of the earth.

Your body has all the excellence you are searching for. The journey of freedom starts with our own body.

Now free yourself from the thought to be like somebody else.

My friend, stand in front of the mirror and ask you ‘Who I am not?’ Only then you can find out who you truly are.

Be yourself and be natural.

Live as yourself never live a life of an image of somebody else.

Knock on the door to find out who lives inside.

TUNING

  "Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."
Mahatma Gandhi

You have attended concerts so many times. Have you watched the musicians before the concerts? Very minutely they used to tune their instruments. They tune the instruments so that while playing they can get the required harmony at the best.

Our body is the greatest musical instrument. Alike other musical instruments our body also need to be tuned. Only after tuning the body follows the note sent by the combined effort of mind and heart. There is no distinction between body and mind.

A loose string of a guitar cannot give the perfect harmony same happens with the body even. Regular tuning of the body is very important it’s the carrier of your heart and mind…your central system of thought process.

A letter may travel 5 to 5000 km which is covered by an addressed envelop. Letter cannot travel on its own to reach the destination. An addressed envelop is required to carry the letter till destination.

Your body plays the role of envelop who take care of the heart, mind and the entire functioning system.

If your body is perfectly tuned, on its own will it will help you to arrive at your destination. You don’t have to ponder over.

My friend, now start tuning your body at the best so it can give the best of the harmonious melody.