We do not see things as they are. We see them as we are.
One day a college friend of mine Roy gave me a call. He is in confusion regarding his health. He got checked up by three doctors and all of their opinion differs. So he asked me to be there to discuss in details.
On the schedule day I went to his place. On entering I heard his voice in loud pitch. He and his wife greet me inside the house. As we all eased down on cozy sofa, starring at his wife Roy pitched out his loud voice complaining, the drinking glass is not properly cleaned. After the incident we started our discussion. Roy’s wife came with coffee. Holding the coffee
mug again he complained the mug is not properly cleaned. Placing the original discussion in shelf he shifted the discussion regarding the maid, she who is responsible for all the dirtiness. On spot he took a decision to get rid of the maid. During the entire episode his wife not even uttered a single word. I was feeling embarrassed.
I insist on the original discussion. As per his old habit he took off the spectacles. He is to do the same whenever he used to get excited. To take control over the situation I asked for the medical reports and diverted the discussion on that course.
After an hour his wife called us for dinner. Taking his seat Roy immediately started checking the drinking glasses. Failed to find none of them spotted with dust particles, he grimed “is this glasses are washed by the maid?” his wife nodded yes. Roy was in motion to say something. His wife stopped him and said, “While you have kept your spectacles on the table I have wiped the dust from it. The glasses are all the same as it was. It is your spectacles which were covered with dust.”
My friend observation is very important to be successful. But while observing you must have a clear vision of the fact, otherwise you will misguide yourself. One must be aware in observation otherwise it’s not possible to view the real picture.
Clean you spectacles and the window glasses….to view a perfect picture.
