It’s
a very common phenomenon within those who are not at all alert and aware of
their being. In most cases crisis developed from the very childhood (an entire
book can be written on this).
Some
years ago while traveling by railway I met a family as co-passenger. They were
three Mr. & Mrs. Bose and their only child of 6yrs. Before getting
introduced with each other I asked the child,
Who
are you? he pointed his parents and said I’m there son. I repeat the same with
the child’s mother, she replied ‘myself wife of Mr. Bose.’ It seems interesting
both the child and the mother proving their identity depending on somebody
else. It is because what the child is saying now the same thing the mother have
learnt from then, when she was at the age of her son. If you grow with a sense
of dependency the root will grow deeper and deeper and you have to live a life
of a parasite.
There
are some other reasons also. Continuous failures may invite ignorance from
others resultant to identity crisis, which frequently happens in our
professional and family life.
Just
start from here, you are the best judge of yourself. If you are rejected it’s the
best time now as no one is paying attention to you. Cool down your mind as if
you are total silence. Total silence is meditation now rejuvenate your inner
being with your quality of creativity. Emphasis on creativity and move ahead
step by step silently. Be stable on your vision. Never calculate your success
in
terms of monetary gain. Simply you are on the target or not.
My
friend, never think you are ordinary. Everybody in this creation is
extraordinary and unique. Do you think our creator is fool, that he will create
something ordinary to destroy his own extraordinary creation?
Only
foolish ignores. Leaders invite others to stand beside them to view and sense
the success on their own.
